How to choose an urn for a pet

It is easy to begin choosing a pet urn from a photograph. A better decision, however, starts with a few practical questions. They separate what the urn must do from what is a personal preference, without forcing an immediate choice.

1. Confirm the size

Ask the cremation provider for the dimensions of the ashes container. Both the interior capacity and opening need to fit it. If the remains will be divided, check the size of every vessel separately.

2. Consider its place

A living-room shelf, a private space and a place where the urn will often be handled may call for different qualities. Think about a stable base, lighting and how the surface will be maintained.

3. Look at the construction

Ask how the lid works, how wide the opening is and how the urn should be carried. Its appearance does not answer these questions. If only a computer rendering is available, request photographs of the physical object or wait until the model is approved.

4. Choose a form that belongs to you

Some people want a recognisable memorial object. Others prefer a quieter form that sits naturally in a home. No colour, symbol or decoration is obligatory. The right choice is one that feels appropriate to you and works technically for its purpose.